problem upgrading from XFree86 3.x to 4.x

[atk2 at arctic.org]

Hello - I had a 4.5 system which I attempted to upgrade to 4.10. The problem
I'm having is upgrading X11 (I have to run 4.x to upgrade most of the 
multimedia packages (such as mozilla)). I've tried portupgrade -ra,
pkg_add XFree86 and make install clean in ports/x11/XFree86-4. They all
fail for various reasons - is there some simple one, two three steps I could
follow to get this upgrade :)

Thanks,
Alan

(Some sample of failures):
pkg_add: could not find package XFree86-libraries-4.3.0_7 !
pkg_add: could not find package dri-4.3.0,1 !
pkg_add: could not find package XFree86-Server-4.3.0_14 !
pkg_add: pkg_add of dependency 'wrapper-1.0_3' failed!
Fetching ftp://ftp.freebsd.org/pub/FreeBSD/ports/i386/packages-4-stable/All/XFree86-FontServer-4.3.0_3.tgz... Done.
pkg_add: could not find package XFree86-libraries-4.3.0_7 !
pkg_add: pkg_add of dependency 'XFree86-FontServer-4.3.0_3' failed!

(tail from pkg_add -r XFree86)

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ude -I/usr/local/include -DFONTCONFIG_PATH=\"/usr/X11R6/etc/fonts\" -I.. -I../src -O -pipe -c fcfreetype.c -Wp,-MD,.deps/fcfreetype.TPlo  -fPIC -DPIC -o .libs/fcfreetype.lo
fcfreetype.c: In function `FcFreeTypeQuery':
fcfreetype.c:280: syntax error before `psfontinfo'
fcfreetype.c:739: `psfontinfo' undeclared (first use in this function)
fcfreetype.c:739: (Each undeclared identifier is reported only once
fcfreetype.c:739: for each function it appears in.)
gmake[2]: *** [fcfreetype.lo] Error 1
gmake[2]: Leaving directory `/f/ports/x11-fonts/fontconfig/work/fontconfig-2.2.2/src'
gmake[1]: *** [all-recursive] Error 1
gmake[1]: Leaving directory `/f/ports/x11-fonts/fontconfig/work/fontconfig-2.2.2'
gmake: *** [all] Error 2


(when i try to build XFree86-4 (which requires fontconfig) fontconfig fails 
beause it needs XFree86-4)

ALan