SSHD and FTPD, can't connect

[Matt Smith]

Hello,
    you may remember the problems that my friends were having with
ssh/ftp timeouts.  Well now I have the same issue with my FBSD 4.10
install.  I can ping the box and use the Apache and telnet daemons, but
not the SSHD or FTPD.  I tried to upgrade the SSHD to no avail and I CAN
connect to the daemons from the loopback address, but not across my home
LAN.  Any suggestions?

                                         Matt