sendmail: stat=Deferred: Connection reset by local

[Wojciech Puchar]

> here it is:
>
> divert(0)dnl
> VERSIONID(`$FreeBSD: src/etc/sendmail/freebsd.submit.mc,v 1.1 2003/10/19 
> 00:03:13 gshapiro Exp $')
> define(`confCF_VERSION', `Submit')dnl
> define(`__OSTYPE__',`')dnl dirty hack to keep proto.m4 from complaining
> define(`_USE_DECNET_SYNTAX_', `1')dnl support DECnet
> define(`confTIME_ZONE', `USE_TZ')dnl
> define(`confDONT_INIT_GROUPS', `True')dnl
> define(`confBIND_OPTS', `WorkAroundBrokenAAAA')dnl
> dnl
> dnl If you use IPv6 only, change [127.0.0.1] to [IPv6:::1]
> FEATURE(`msp', `[127.0.0.1]')dnl
   ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^6
this line i wanted to check if it listens. looks fine, while your 
messages suggested that it's not.

so no more idea, you talked about that you upgraded things, maybe rm 
*.cf;make;make install;/etc/rc.d/sendmail restart
?

but actually i don't have more ideas.