Ports and Packages

[Mohammed Gamal]

Hi ,uname -a output: FreeBSD hti-community.co.cc 8.2-RELEASE FreeBSD 8.2-RELEASE #0: Fri Feb 18 02:24                        :46 UTC 2011     root at almeida.cse.buffalo.edu:/usr/obj/usr/src/sys/GENERIC  i386

1-where to get php-5.3.6.tbz and mysql cuz my ports collections doesn't exist.
/usr/ports
i have done installing apache2.2.17 from source but it doesn't start on boot , i also added 
apache22_enable="YES" to rc.conf but no effect.
2- why i can not access root account through ssh2 ?