Software to manage virtual hosts on a dedicated server

[Zbigniew Szalbot]

Hello,

Do you know any decent provider-like software which would handle adding  
new domains, ftp accounts, sql databases & mail accounts to the server?  
Preferably something in ports but I am not sure if there is any such  
thing? I am not going to become a provider :) but I am just looking for  
something to make life easier in this respect. I have seen syscp, but this  
has the disadvantage that it creates directories that are already  
containing public_html folders (no way to place files outside public  
access).

Many thanks in advance for all suggestions!

Zbigniew Szalbot