pf binat problem

[Leon Botes]

# network diagram
#                        __________
#                       |          | <dsl1_if>---<dsl1_rt>
#                       |          |
#   <pri_net>---<pri_if>| freebsd  | <dsl2_if>---<dsl2_rt>
#                       |    pf    |
#   <dmz_srv>---<dmz_if>| firewall | <dig_if>----<dig_rt>
#                       |          |
#   (internal nets)     |__________| (external nets)

Default Gateway is <dig_rt>.
When a connection arrives on one of the dsl_if's it is redirected to the 
correct port on the dms_srv, traced via tcpdump.
The dmz_srv responds but tries to send its reply out the default gateway 
instead of via the interface the connection arrived on.
The dmz server is actually a LVS cluster masqueraded.
All connections coming in via the dig_if get redirected and work fine.

How can i tell pf to return connections out the same interface they 
arrived on and not use the default route out dig_if?

dsl1_if = "rl3"
dsl1_rt = "172.16.3.1"
dsl1_ip = "172.16.3.2"
dsl2_if = "rl1"
dsl2_rt = "172.16.4.1"
dsl2_ip = "172.16.4.2"
dmz_if = "rl0"
dmz_srv = "172.16.2.4"
dmz_if_ip = "172.16.2.3"
pri_if = "rl2"
pri_ip = "192.168.254.1"

binat on $dig_if from $dmz_srv to any -> $dig_ip
binat on $dsl1_if from $dmz_srv to any -> $dsl1_ip
binat on $dsl2_if from $dmz_srv to any -> $dsl2_ip
nat on $dig_if from <pri_net> to any -> $dig_ip
nat on $dsl1_if from <pri_net> to any -> $dsl1_ip
nat on $dsl2_if from <pri_net> to any -> $dsl2_ip

rdr on $dsl1_if inet proto tcp from any to $dsl1_ip port { 25, 80, 110 } 
-> $dmz_srv
rdr on $dsl2_if inet proto tcp from any to $dsl2_ip port { 25, 80, 110 } 
-> $dmz_srv

Thanks
Leon