Externally connecting to databases?

[john Mish III]

I have mysqld installed (4.1) on my FreeBSD 6.1 box. I need a totally 
different box to connect to those databases through PHP scripts. I've 
already tried editing hosts.allow in the /etc/ folder, but no effect. Does 
FreeBSD need to be restarted after these changes are done, or just inetd, 
cause I've tried inetd forcerestart, but it does nothing. When I run my PHP 
script, it waits a couple seconds, then shows a completly blank page.

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