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[RDWest]

hi guys,
years ago i ran freebsd for apache
now i need it as http/ftp/mail
with php/mysql

the version i bought was 4.0
it came with a big book and about 7 cd's

thats how long it has been lol

questiions
here is what i want

i need a base os - nothing on it
then i want to install each package i need

i need to ssh into it to do all tasks

where can i get the best newb help?
does someone know a guide to just install the base os?
and any links for admining freebsd from ssh?

tx guys

RD