i can't connect remote to my mysql server

[albi at scii.nl]

On Thu, 18 Aug 2005 13:52:36 +0300
vladone <vladone at spaingsm.com> wrote:

> I have instaled mysql server succcesfull and started. I set root
> password, i can login to my server from console but i can't login
> remote (i use Mysql Control Center for win, for quickly management).
> I receive this error: "host 192.168.100.4 is not allowed to connect to
> this Mysql server"
> I dont know why, server is up and running.

afaik by default it's only allowing 127.0.0.1 to access 

> Another question is about config files. I dont know where is config
> file for mysql on freebsd. In linux exist mysql.cnf but here ... i
> dont see anything.

if you installed from ports, try looking in /usr/local/etc/
(almost) everything installed from ports has the /usr/local/
install-prefix

pkg_info -L mysql-server* | less
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