php4-4.3.4 port with apache-2.0.48_1 instead of apache-1.3.29_1

[Seamus Abshere]

I would like to use the php4-4.3.4 port with the apache-2.0.48_1 port, 
but php4-4.3.4 lists apache-1.3.29_1 as a dependency.

I understand that this "substitution" is more complicated than simply 
not installing apache-1.3.29_1, because php has to be configured with 
different flags (--with-apxs2=/usr/local/apache2/bin/apxs, etc)(and 
other things), but I would still like the convenience of updating both 
ports with a cron job.

What can I do? Should I just install php manually?

Thank you,
Seamus Abshere